5 MINUTES WITH: Hayley Alexander, a London writer living in Dubai

Hayley Alexander For Dubai People

Hayley first arrived in Dubai from rainy London in 2016

Tell us a little bit of yourself

 

I’m a Londoner who found a second home in Dubai nearly eight years ago. As a freelance writer, I’ve been fortunate enough to weave my passion for food, culture and all the vibrant happenings of the city into my career. It’s truly a dream job; I often pinch myself over some of the wild and wonderful things I get to experience.

My writing primarily caters to audiences in the UAE and Saudi Arabia, where I aim to shed light on the gems and delightful experiences that make this region so special.

When I’m not busy working (though, let’s be honest, my work feels more like play most days), you’ll often find me indulging in the same activities I write about, alongside beach walks and occasional padel (mix between squash and tennis) games. Despite my love for the busy city, I’m also a huge homebody. I love curling up on the couch, diving into a captivating TV series or book and cooking up a storm in the kitchen. Cooking holds a special place in my heart; it’s where I find joy, creativity and a sense of satisfaction.

 

How and when did you move here, and what inspired the move?

 

So, back in September 2016, I ditched the rainy London scene and jetted off to Dubai. Honestly, it was meant to be a little break, a taste of something different. I was over the 9-5 work life and jumping on the crowded tube – especially on rainy days; can you tell that I’m not a fan of rain, ha? But as soon as I landed at Dubai Airport, there was no way this was going to be a long holiday. I had friends spanning from school, college and university who were settled and had made the leap a couple years before – so it didn’t feel too daunting. With my trusty Time Out Guidebook and a bunch of post-it notes hanging out of it, I explored every corner of the city. Before I knew it, I’d visited all the major landmarks, I was soaking up the sun, enjoying pool days, dining in restaurants and living a life that felt like one big holiday. Fast forward to now, and I can’t imagine being anywhere else. Dubai’s my place, no doubt about it.

How has living in Dubai shaped your sense of belonging and community?

 

Absolutely, Dubai’s openness to different nationalities, religions, and cultures is amazing. As an expat, I’ve been warmly welcomed to embrace Emirati traditions and cuisines. During Ramadan, it’s just incredible to see the city buzzing with iftars and suhoors and a real sense of community, no matter your background.

But it’s not just about cultural events. Dubai offers so many ways to connect and feel like you belong. Whether it’s meeting up with industry folks, hanging out with fellow freelancers once a week, joining walking groups, or just chilling with a diverse circle of friends, there’s always a sense of camaraderie. It’s this mix of connections and experiences that really make Dubai feel like home to me.

 

Can you tell us about a particular person in Dubai who has had a significant impact on your life and why?

 

Let me tell you about Shabana, a dear friend who has had a profound impact on my life here in Dubai. We first connected through mutual friends at an event – I knew she’d be a blast! Shabana, an editor at the time, unknowingly sparked my journey into content writing. Back when I was knee-deep in events and marketing, she’d nudge me to join her on reviews, curious about my take on things. It broke up my not so exciting week and I enjoyed her company. We went on brilliant road trips, accompanied by 90s music of course! We staycayed across the emirates, and we dined; fine and casual – wherever we went, we had a blast!

Slowly but surely, she encouraged me to contribute my own reviews and when COVID hit and events slowed down, it became a pivotal moment. I found myself behind my laptop and diving deeper into creative writing. Fast forward five years, and here I am, absolutely obsessed with what I do – all thanks to Shabana’s unwavering support and encouragement. She’s more than a friend; she’s been a guiding light in my journey as a writer.

 

What is your favourite thing about the emirate and why?

 

Hands down, it’s the sense of safety, especially for us women. Feeling secure in your environment is priceless. Then there’s that feeling that anything’s possible here. Whether it’s chasing career dreams or just living life to the fullest, whilst don’t get me wrong there will be challenges but the spirit, vision and what has been achieved makes you feel that you too can achieve your goals. And let’s not forget weekends, and evenings after work to be fair! Road trips, desert adventures, beach days, fine dining, casual hangs—options galore. It’s like having a whole world of fun right at your doorstep. That’s what I love most about the emirate.

A myth about Dubai that you would like to bust

 

As a lover of all things arts and culture, I’d like to shout from the rooftops that beyond Dubai’s glamour lies a thriving community of talented designers, artists, musicians and tech startups. From captivating art exhibitions to intimate galleries and bustling innovation hubs, fashion shows, live music and so much more, the city buzzes with creativity and entrepreneurial spirit. It’s a place where likeminded individuals from across the globe come together to collaborate and inspire. Amidst the skyscrapers and luxury, Dubai’s thriving arts scene is a testament to its diversity and creativity.

 

Could you share a memorable moment when you felt the genuine warmth and hospitality of the Dubai community in your own life?

 

Yesterday, I witnessed something truly heartwarming that perfectly captures the genuine spirit of Dubai’s community. Not directed to me personally, but amidst the Ramadan rush-hour traffic, I noticed taxi drivers, fasting all day, patiently navigating through the chaos.

Then, at iftar time individuals began handing out these small iftar packs – filled with dates and juice – to the drivers. It was such a thoughtful gesture, ensuring these hardworking individuals could break their fast with ease, despite their busy schedules.

In a city known for its hustle and bustle, these moments of compassion remind me of the beautiful sense of unity and solidarity that defines Dubai’s community. It’s these little acts of kindness that truly make this city feel like home.

 

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Derek Issacs

A Brit in the Middle East for 25 years and counting, Derek loves scouring the streets for those under-the-radar cultural gems. And when he’s not putting Yalla – Abu Dhabi magazine to bed, you’ll find him working out at the gym.